Many parents don't know how their children will like school
Don't use school as a threat. For example, avoid saying, "At school, you're going to have to listen!" Behavior like that, they will not endure this for long! These kinds of words give the school a bad image.
Do not speak badly about the school or its teacher *. To be successful in school and want to go, children need to feel that their parents trust the school and the teachers.
When the parent has bad memories of school
School may bring back bad memories, either because you had learning problems, bad relationships with teachers, or because you experienced bullying.
However, it is important not to tell your child about bad memories. If he hears you repeating how much you hated school and how you disliked this or that teacher, he might think it will be the same for him. Without even stepping foot in his classroom, he might think that school is not a good place and that he will not be well.
For your child, it's a whole new story with school starting. Just because you've been through difficult things yourself doesn't mean it will be the same for him. He needs you to get off to a good start! The best is to tell your child that you are proud to see them grow up and go to school. You can talk to him well about school by telling him that he is going to learn all kinds of things and make new friends.
And even if school brings back bad memories, it's important to go to parent meetings and collaborate with your teacher.
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